Monday, November 26, 2012

Something Hello Kitty Fans Will Squeal About

The same way cats make a lot of noise when they're hovering by our fences, I'm pretty sure fans of Hello Kitty everywhere will squeal when they see this.

I'm not much of a Hello Kitty fan, although being into it can be contagious. I'm more into My Melody, but I did let out a tiny "wheee!" when I found these on UK shopping site, Zatchel:






These come at roughly Php 7,000 to Php 9,000 without shipping cost and they are limited edition releases only.

I used to have such a bad case of lemming for satchels handbags. But I'm over that now, thank god! I'm just looking at these coz they are such eye-candies!

RetailGasm

Black Friday shoppers
Photo from Huffington Post
Before consumerism became a lifestyle, the only time I ever got to hear the words "Black Friday" was during Holy Week. But that hasn't been the case the in last three years or so.

In America, Black Friday is synonymous with huge discount shopping, which only happens once in a year. Enterprising companies put out and slash price tags way, way down, tempting a mad dash of people who are hoping to score great deals. This, for them, is officially the start of Christmas. Yet even with the exasperating crowd situation, where there's actual danger of interchanging faces with somebody, more and more people seem to come to the stores to experience the, uhm, orgy.

If Filipinos wake up at dawn to observe 16 days of Simbang Gabi tradition during the holidays, Americans stay up late into the night after Thanksgiving, to stand outside the store, sometimes in the cold, so that they could get first dibs on items they normally won't buy at its regular prices. Some sectors are actually complaining that Black Friday takes away the spirit of the holiday before it. People forego having the traditional Thanksgiving dinner with their families in order to be at the lines, as stores open at exactly 12 midnight or earlier. Store clerks, meanwhile, skip the Thanksgiving feast altogether to man their areas and prepare for the madness.

Here in the Philippines, some do get to experience Black Friday by conveniently shopping at online US stores. It's essentially like cheating away from the crowd and crazies. However, local brick and mortar stores are slowly adapting into this Western tradition by setting up their own Thanksgiving sale. Now this? Is total madness! And it's obviously a marketing ploy because the price cuts are not even significant. Only, when people see the word SALE sprawled across the merchandise, it's so easy to get them to bite into it. It's pathetic business practice, I hope other stores won't consider getting into next year (hah!).

I pride myself with being a bargain hunter, but I can never understand the joy of shopping when this is what you have to enjoy it with:

Photo from Google Images
What are the chances of snagging that item you've been eyeing, now at 80% off, when you have to brave this sea of people?

Shopaholics need their retail therapy. I understand this because, like the occasional fever and fatigue, I also have my bouts with the "disease". There is, however, a different kind of disease plaguing consumers during Black Friday and there are studies to back it up (imagine that!):




Retail stores are, no doubt, more than happy to be the root cause of this.

Is Black Friday shopping even worth it?

Have you tried being in the crowd during Black Friday? What was the experience like?

Sunday, November 25, 2012

Icing On the Cake

Who would imagine a fairy tale wedding like this could still happen in 2012?

Carmina ties knot with Zoren in surprise wedding | via the Inquirer

I'm normally not a fan of lavish showbiz wedding ceremonies, or weddings in general. But the one Zoren gifted his bride and partner of 12 years trumps any high profile weddings I've seen of late. He's set the bar for the men, alright.

Photo from: WedSpeak
(I like this candid shot, btw!)

Meanwhile, women everywhere in these islands will never forget this wedding. And when spoken about it several years down the line, I'm pretty sure it will still elicit a collective swoon and sigh from the female population.

These men, however, don't get it:



As it is, it's tough to keep a relationship going for 12 years. Tougher still, when you are working in the entertainment industry and when there are kids involved. Normally, the odds are against the relationship surviving, right? So, to see this man pour all his efforts into pulling this wedding caper; to see the couple behave like the actual newly-weds that they should've been a decade ago, is so admirable.

What women saw was not just about romance. This was a celebration of real love and committment; of a relationship that thrives despite the odds.

The fairy tale wedding, really, was just the icing on the cake. Beautifully planned and executed as it was.

Back To Basics

I'm in another transition. And it has been happening for over a month. A wave of uncertainty has rocked my comfort zone. It's not like I couldn't do something about it. It isn't crippling. But transitions like this one, to a person who normally loves structure and routines and to someone who is used to overthinking every.single.thing? It's quite unsettling.

I've had sleepless nights thinking about stuff that only seem to escalate my anxiety. These thoughts start out harmlessly, but they almost always end up in death.

"What are my options?"
"Would I be able to do this?"
"What do I want?"
"Maybe I need to take a break?"
"If I take a break I might miss out on something."
"I guess a break isn't so bad."
"I could shop for new shoes!"
"Do I really need to spend on a new pair?"
"Maybe I should use that money to pay more bills."
"Bills...when will these end?"
"I will die paying bills."
"OMG! What if I die tomorrow?"
"My mind is exploding! Will someone please hold my hand???"

Talking about my dilemma among a few close friends, however, made me realize I've been agonizing over what others may call as #firstworldproblems. (Yes, mandatory hashtag included!)

In the course of figuring out what I should do next, I came across this quote, which currently serves as my daily mantra:
"In order to attract more of the blessings that life has to offer, you must truly appreciate what you already have..."
Transitions...changes...these don't necessarily mean losses. It took me a while to realize that I didn't really lose anything. I was holding on to something that, on hindsight, wasn't supposed to be a permanent deal. I just wasn't ready to let go of it at that time.

But in "losing" that, I actually gained something. Like, more time for my personal growth (naks!) and more options to get my groove back. Only, right now, I still don't know how to deal with all of it.

To start the ball rolling, however, I created this blog to motivate me.

Back to basics. Back to blogging. As in really blogging old school style. About stuff I'd like to voice out for. About stuff that actually matter in real life conversations.

Hopefully, this isn't going to be just a distraction. I seriously want to create something from this and I've already set up a plan. So, I'm taking the first step. Hold my hand, will you?

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